Is my boyfriend depressed? what can i do?

I wouldn't worry too much. Honestly sounds like he is just toying with you, being he is reassuring you that he is fine but making no effort to continue your relationship.. Sometimes guys do weird things for attention.. You all are still young yet, he might be trying to distance himself, maybe even straying.. When guys are young, it is hard for them to settle down.. They do like to play stupid games for attention. He knows that you both have been distant and that hurts you, yet he is texting you asking you a question he already knows the answer to. Really sound like he is rubbing it in your face.. If he would of really cared, he would at least had the decency to call you... If i were in your position, i would talk to him and tell him that you feeling you are growing apart and he may need some time to get it together.. Obviously you are not happy with where things are going and you even realize there are some issues.can he be busy with work if he don't have a job??. So you have to decide whats in the best interest for the both of you.. If you really think he is depressed, you could talk to a trusting family member of his and ask for help.. As for being afraid he is going to end it with you-- be more confident in yourself, be strong, and realize that you are still young yet.. dealing with a guy who don't consider your feelings and someone who has to text you stupid questions and don't reply back to your messages is not worth the trouble.. Good luck with whatever you decide..